In the 1970s and 1980s, China had not vet implemented a familv planning policy,and many families faced the problem of non only children leaving or staying, and myfamily was no exception My grandparents have two children, my father and uncle. Uncle goes to otherplaces to do business, while my father is the one who stays in his hometown to workand take care of the elderly, This kind of going and staying has caused differentsituations for two families, and has also influenced my generation from my father's generation. Since China entered the period of contemporary social transformation, thegrass-roots society that families rely on and the external environment of familyexistence have changed. The social transformation has had an impact on China'scontemporary family form through fertility behavior, population spatial distributionand population structure changes. This impact is reflected in two aspects: familystructure and interaenerational relations, The family is "aenerational" This work is from the perspective of me, an only child, recaling the moments fromchildhood to adulthood and attempting to understand the relationships between myparents and ancestors, including the emotional changes l experience when dealingwith complex family relationships, From initial sadness and anger to later confusionand confusion, l hated this family relationship, but in the end, l reconciled with myself,my parents, and my family through this family relationship. That family photo is nolonger a cold photo on the table, but has become a warm current in my heart.